So you’ve decided to get married in a Catholic church. Congratulations on the sacramental journey you are about to begin. Indeed, the ceremony you will be planning is more than just an event, it is a sacrament, a sign of your union together founded upon the love of Christ. It is not a sign like a stop sign that says one thing plainly and simply. Rather it is a sign to the world of the covenantal (sacred and permanent) relationship into which God has called the two of you. Because your marriage is that kind of sign, it will have an effect on everything about you. Likewise, it will have varying effects on everyone you know. In short, you do not marry in private.

Sometimes, when a couple contacts a Catholic church about setting up a wedding ceremony, they get questions about their backgrounds and things like parish membership from the parish secretary, priest, or other staff member. The couple is often surprised by these questions and might even feel unwelcome because of them. Use the responses to each of these questions below as guiding principles, but be sure to contact your local parish to understand their policies and procedures.

Getting Married in the Catholic Church

Can we get married in a Catholic church if we’re not members of the parish?

Catholic weddings are ideally supposed to take place in the parish of either the bride or groom. In fact, the Code of Canon Law (Cn 1115) states that “marriages are to be celebrated at a parish where either of the contracting parties” has at least a “month long residence.” However, it also states that the parish pastor or local bishop can give permission for a wedding to take place in another parish.

This is why it is very common for couples to be married in their hometowns where they grew up but no longer reside. Very often, in fact, couples are married in their parents’ current parish even if it isn’t the parish they grew up in themselves.

One of the main reasons Catholic churches are so focused on membership, is that since Matrimony is a sacrament, it is done within the context of a faith community. This is the same reason that Catholics are asked to get married in an actual church building. It is symbolic of the sacramental nature of the event and the need to be a part of Christ’s Church while undergoing this sacrament.

Can we get married in the Catholic Church if one of us is a baptized Christian but not a Catholic?

Yes, a Catholic can marry another baptized Christian. In fact, this has become quite common. When you meet with the parish priest, he will explain any special arrangements that will need to be made, including the possible participation of a minister from the non-Catholic partner’s church.

When two baptized persons marry, they vow to live a sacramental marriage within the Church. This is why the Church asks you to promise to baptize your children and raise them within the Catholic faith community.

If your fiancé is not a baptized Christian, then the parish may invite him or her to explore joining the Church. If there is interest, they will ask that he or she begin the RCIA process in order to enter into communion with Christ and the Church. Since Matrimony is a sacrament of the Church, baptism is a prerequisite requirement. Without baptism and entrance into the Church, you cannot receive the other sacraments. Since the Church recognizes baptism from other Christian denominations as valid, it also recognizes the marriages between any two baptized individuals whether they were Catholic at the time they were married or not.

For more information about marriages between a Catholic and a non-Catholic, read Appendix A from Together for Life, “Marriage Between a Catholic and a Non-Catholic,” or “A Welcome to Those Who Are Not Catholic” on the Joined by Grace website.

Can we get married in the Catholic Church if one of us is divorced?

Yes, you may, as long as the previous marriage has been declared null or invalid by the Catholic Church or the former spouse has died. A statement of legal divorce is not enough for a couple to enter into another sacramental bond of marriage.

Couples who were previously married can go through a process of annulment so that they can enter into a sacramental marriage through the Church. An annulment does not undo a marriage. It is a declaration that the previous marriage was not sacramental because there was something standing in the way of the couples entering freely into the covenant relationship in the first place.

The first step is to speak with the pastor of your parish. A parish minister will help you through the process and make sure that the necessary steps are taken and documents are provided so that the diocesan marriage tribunal can consider your request for an annulment.

Read more: Catholic Annulment Frequently Asked Questions


Can we get married in the Catholic Church if we haven’t been confirmed?

For a Catholic to participate in the sacrament of matrimony, he or she must have received the sacrament of confirmation, the completion of the sacrament of baptism. According to Canon Law (Cn 1063), “Catholics who have not yet received the sacrament of confirmation are to receive it before they are admitted to marriage if it can be done without grave inconvenience.” So you can say that it is possible, but highly improbable, that you will be able to get married without receiving the sacrament of confirmation first. Although canon law does not absolutely require that a Catholic be confirmed in order to get married, it is very likely that most pastors and dioceses do.

Can we get married in the Catholic Church if we’re living together (cohabitation)?

It depends. First a little background:

The sacramental sign of marriage is sexual union between spouses. The purpose of marriage is for the good of the spouses and the procreation and education of children. When a couple is living together prior to marriage, the assumption is that the couple is engaging in sexual intercourse without a relationship based on a marital covenant.

Cohabitation in itself is not an impediment to marriage. Neither is premarital sex, though it is a sin and participating in the sacrament of reconciliation is strongly encouraged leading up to the celebration of Matrimony. However, some pastors will ask that you move out in preparation for your marriage if you want to be married in their parish. Some will just strongly suggest this and others will not ask at all. In any case, the important thing is for you and all couples to come to a deeper understanding of the purpose of marriage and the role sex plays within it.

What are the requirements for getting married in a Catholic church?

There are a few things that need to take place before getting married in a Catholic parish:

1. Approval from the Pastor 

If you are not members of the parish, then you will need to get the pastor’s approval for the wedding to take place there. This might require a meeting or a phone call. Ultimately, you will need to get in touch with the pastor for this decision to be made.

2. The Interview

First, couples will usually need to schedule a meeting with the pastor of the parish and sometimes a deacon as the first step in preparing for the sacrament of matrimony. This interview is meant to introduce the couple to some of the steps they will need to take in the weeks leading up to their wedding. The meeting is also meant to make sure the couple understands the sacrament they are about to take part in and ensure that there are no impediments to entering freely into the sacrament (a previous marriage, mental illness, coercion, etc.).

3. Marriage Preparation Program

Couples usually need to enroll in a marriage preparation program required by the parish or diocese. Often there will be different options available to you such as a day-long or weekend-long retreat with other engaged couples, meetings with other engaged couples over a period of several weeks, or a series of meetings between the two of you and a married couple who become sponsors or mentors during the time of your engagement. Most of these preparation programs are led by married couples who are eager to help you get off to a good start. The programs focus on developing a sacramental marriage that will last a lifetime.

Couples usually spend time meeting with the pastor of the parish that they will be married in or the priest or deacon who will preside at the wedding. Couples can also meet with another priest in their geographic location if they are unable to physically meet with the priest who will be at their wedding.

4. Forms and Paperwork

Church records need to be sent to the parish in which you will get married. Baptismal records, and certificates of First Holy Communion and Confirmation, need to be sent to the parish so that the date of your marriage can be added to the form.

If one or both of you have been married before, you will need to supply a Decree of Nullity, indicating an annulment of the previous marriage. There are likely to be other forms to complete as well as fees to pay for the amount of time it takes to process the paperwork and prepare the church for your wedding ceremony.

5. Wedding Planning

You will need to meet with the parish wedding planner to plan the wedding. They are likely to give you a copy of Together for Life to select your readings and prayers for The Order of Celebrating Matrimony and to reflect on your marriage together as a couple. The time you take to reflect on your choices of readings and prayers will be important leading up to your actual wedding day.

The Catholic Wedding Planning Checklist 

Wedding planning can become overwhelming. There are a lot of things to plan in a short amount of time. Sign up for the Together for Life Online newsletter and we will send you a free copy of the The Catholic Wedding Planning Checklist. Find more more.

Should I join a parish after the wedding?

The much bigger question at hand is: where will you go to church after your wedding is over?

If you are not getting married in the city you live in today, then seek out a parish near your home to join with your new spouse. Remember that in marriage you enter into a sacramental relationship that can only be fed by Christ and his Body, the Church.

Tap into this support system and meet other married couples who can help you live a joyful marriage that lasts a lifetime.

*For a list of many more questions and answers about getting married in the Catholic Church, check out Paul Turner’s book, The Catholic Wedding Answer Book

Note about comments:

Due to the volume of the questions, we are unable to answer them in the comments. Please contact your local parish priest or diocese to clarify any questions or concerns you may have. Any slanderous or improper questions or complaints will not be approved. 

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  • lawrence helfant says:

    If I have a Baptism Cert. from 1946, is it valid for a con validation marriage? We have a civil marriage from 1965. 1 is Catholic & other is Prot. It was 1st & only marriage for both of us. We want a Catholic Wedding. Thank You.

  • Chesna says:

    Can you get married in a Catholic church by a Justice of the Peace. We just want to use the building.

  • marylisa says:

    Hello I want to get marry with my boyfriend We have been together for 5 years and we’re expecting a babyI would love to get married in a Catholic Church but my concern is I am baptized aS a catholic but the problem is I never did my first commu none of the above is it possible for us to still get married ????

    • Hi Marylisa, please contact the pastor at your local Catholic parish to meet with you and your boyfriend. You will need to participate in the sacrament of Confirmation as well as your first communion. He will also walk you and your boyfriend through a series of questions to make sure you are both ready to enter into the sacrament of matrimony.

      Here is the quote from the question about Confirmation:

      For a Catholic to participate in the sacrament of matrimony, he or she must have received the sacrament of confirmation, the completion of the sacrament of baptism. According to Canon Law (Cn 1063), “Catholics who have not yet received the sacrament of confirmation are to receive it before they are admitted to marriage if it can be done without grave inconvenience.”

  • AJ Fortune says:

    Can a couple, both divorced, but never married in a church (civil ceremonies) be now married to each other in a Catholic Church? Both Roman Catholics.

    • Hi AJ, very good question. You can find a number of answers for questions about annulment here:

      To specifically answer your questions, we will pull from Fr. Paul Turner’s book, The Catholic Wedding Answer Book (page 14):

      You will need an annulment before you can be married in the Catholic Church, “but it will probably be a simple matter. . . if a Catholic marries without the proper form [marriage in a parish church], we do not recognize the validity of the marriage. If persons in that marriage divorce, an annulment can be granted on the grounds of ‘lack of form.'”

      So, you should gather your marriage license and divorce decrees and contact your parish to begin the annulment process.

  • MH Adams says:

    I learned in an RCIA class that a person unable to engage in sexual intercourse because of physical disability is not permitted to marry in the Catholic Church, because the marriage vow is consummated by the marital embrace. If the person is a man, neither is he permitted to become a priest, because a priest, though he takes a vow of celibacy, must be physically able to father a child, to be a valid spiritual Father to the flock.

    Can you tell me a little more about this?

    • Hi MH, very good question. What you heard in your RCIA class comes from Code of Canon Law:

      Can. 1084 §1. Antecedent and perpetual impotence to have intercourse, whether on the part of the man or the woman, whether absolute or relative, nullifies marriage by its very nature.

      §2. If the impediment of impotence is doubtful, whether by a doubt about the law or a doubt about a fact, a marriage must not be impeded nor, while the doubt remains, declared null.

      If there is any doubt whatsoever now or in the future, then no a sacramental marriage would not be possible since the consummation of the marriage is essential. However, since there are such rare cases that “antecedent and perpetual impotence” is absolutely now and forever true, it is unlikely that a priest or diocese would prevent a couple from making their marital vows.

  • Kay says:

    Hello. I am a Catholic who has had First Communion and Confirmation. My boyfriend is a baptized Christian. Can we get married in the church or does he need to talk with a priest about communion and confirmation?
    Thanks in advance.

    • Good question, Kay. Yes, you can be married in the Church if one of you is a baptized Christian but not yet Catholic. While it is not required, prayerfully consider encouraging your boyfriend to meet with a priest about the joys of fully entering into the Catholic Church.

  • Marisa says:

    I divorced and later remarried.
    Recently my ex husband passed away.
    Can I receive communion now?

  • mike says:

    If my fiancé is Catholic and I don’t believe in god but she does and wants to be married through the church what should we do??

    • Mike, this is a very tough question. Getting married in the Catholic Church is about more than just being married in a church building. The vows you will make include God as an essential part of the marital union. Would you be open to meeting with a priest about your beliefs as you prepare to marry?

  • Angela says:

    Hello. I am a baptized Catholic. My fiancé is a non-baptized member of the Church of England. I would ideally like to be married in a Catholic Church. But if not, I at least want our marriage recognized by the Catholic Church. Is this possible?

    • Hi Angela, please contact the priest in your parish and meet with him about getting married in the Catholic Church. If this is your wish, then prayerfully consider it with your future spouse and make sure both of you are ready to make that decision.

  • Sarah says:

    I’m a Catholic girl from Lebanon, and my fiancé is American and living in America, but he is a Baptised non Catholic, and we want to marry in a Catholic church in the States, but we have to wait for the fiancé visa and all that and when we will get it, we will only have 90 days to get married after I get the fiancé visa, which is less than the 6 months that all churches talk about for preparation. What should we do? I can’t go to the States before I get the fiancé visa.
    What should/can we do? I am really confused and stressed about this.

    • Hi Sarah, thanks for your questions. There are many legal issues here that we won’t be able to answer regarding your visa. Ask your fiance to talk to the pastor of his parish about these questions. He will be able to guide you through the process if you are willing and able to get sacramentally married in the Church.

  • Andrea says:

    My question is I am Catholic, baptized, communion, confirmation, same with my fiance.
    He has never been married, no children.
    I was married in a Greek Orthodox Church.
    Married for 15 years, divorced due to alcoholism, not on my part. Waited 5 years
    for him to turn around and kids were getting older and being affected.
    I have 3 children baptized greek orthodox.

    We would like to get married in a Catholic Church.
    Since I was not married in a Catholic Church, does the Catholic Church
    even recognize my previous marriage and do I still need an annulment.

  • Hollie says:

    Neither me or my partner have been baptised, we would like to be married by a Catholic priest, I have had a child from a previous relationship before as well.

    Would it be possible to be married by a Catholic priest, and would it have to be in a church?

    • Hi Hollie, thanks for your question. In order to be married in the Catholic Church, you and your fiance will need to go through the RCIA process to enter the Church. This is an exciting journey that you both can take together. Contact the priest of the parish community that you would like to join and he will explain the steps you can take together. May God bless your discernment and give you confidence as you begin this journey toward baptism and marriage.

  • Veronica says:

    Im getting married in January 2015, I havent completed my First Communion or my Confirmation, none of the catholic churches will agree/proceed with the marriage sacrament without having them. I cannot do the RCIA because that begans in September & ends before Easter therefore its to late for me to join cause its February. I asked if thetes something else I can do another possible program, classes, online something & they said no that I shouldnt have set a wedding date if I didnt have all my sacraments. All the chuches require 6 months anticipation & Im going with 11 months anticipation! Therfore Now I cannot get married in a catholic church

    • Veronica, thank you for sharing your story. Hopefully other couples can learn from your experience and take these important steps before setting the date for their weddings. Catholic marriage is a beautiful sacrament that can be an incredible source of grace for couples. Please consider entering into the RCIA process in the Fall regardless of your decisions regarding your wedding. You will find that the experience of others who have gone through the process has brought many gifts into their lives.

  • Mil-mil says:

    My partner and I were baptized in the Catholic Church. He’s a practicing Catholic, while I was raised in a non-Catholic belief (Protestant) so I never had my first communion nor confirmation. My partner wants us to be married in a Catholic Church. Is it still possible? Do I still need to have my first communion and confirmation?

  • Helen says:

    I am currently married to my confirmed Catholic husband. We married in a civil ceremony 2.5 years ago. Prior to our marriage, both of us had previous marriages and divorces. Can we marry and/or renew our vows in the Catholic church now? I am not Catholic nor have I been baptised. What is the process, if there is one, to make this ceremony happen?

  • Brittany says:

    I am wanting to know if I am a member of one Catholic Church in one city that I live in and I am wanting to get married in another city in a different Catholic Church is that possible? Also would I be able to have my priest from the city I live in marry us?

  • Monica says:

    Is there a consistent length of time that a couple needs to be engaged before marriage in the Catholic church? It seems that 6 months is a common number, but is that just determined by the Priest? Is it possible to be married sooner (assuming to have all the paperwork, pre cana, etc)?

  • Zel says:

    how long does it takes to process certificate of confirmation.

  • Mary says:

    My boyfriend and I wanted to get married in the courthouse now to be married according to the state but take our time and try to set a date to get married in the Catholic Church later this year or next year but I had heard getting married by the state could hurt us being able to get married in the Catholic Church. Could this cause problems? Will we still be able to get married in the Catholic Church if we get married at the courthouse first?

  • Ivan says:

    Hello –
    My fiance was baptized catholic and has completed her First Communion & Confirmation. I’ve been baptized catholic but have not completed my First Communion nor Confirmation. Does the Catholic church require that I also complete my First Communion & Confirmation in order to be married in a Catholic church? Or is one of us sufficient?

    My fiance and I have also decided to enter into a civil marriage. Is this frown upon and will that hold us from having an official church wedding in the future?

    Thank you!

  • Meghan says:

    My fiancé is a baptized member of the Catholic Church. I am not baptized and not Catholic. I plan on entering the RCIA course this fall, but my wedding is in January. Therefore, I will not be baptized or a member by our wedding, I was trying to decide which forms of Rite of Marriage to use since I plan on becoming a member. About 85-90% of the guests are Catholic including my fiancé, so I was going to choose to have a marriage with mass with the understanding that I cannot receive communion. But if I don’t have mass, then our marriage won’t be sacrament when I become Catholic? Any clarification or advice would be greatly appreciated.

    Thank you


    Can I marry In my fiance’s parish but with a Priest from a different parish?

  • Jack says:

    My fiance and I are both baptized and confirmed, however we have been inactive with the church for sometime. We intend to begin going to our local Parish, but we was to get married in her home town approximately three hours from our current residence.

    My first question is how we go about receiving permission to be married in her parent’s parish?

    Second, we have been cohabiting for approximately two years and that situation is not likely to change due to economic constraints and lack of other options. Is this something that we would likely get a waiver for, or are we likely to be barred?


  • ashley says:

    Hi. My boyfriend is baptized, had his communion and confirmed. I have not yet completed my confirmation would we still be able to be married in the catholic church? We get married in 7 months

  • morgen says:

    I am a non confirmed no first communion but baptized Catholic who does not subscribe to the faith. My fiancé is a baptized and confirmed Catholic who wants to get married in the church. Am I eligible to get married in the church or what do I need to participate as a non Catholic.

  • Mara says:

    I am a baptized Catholic but I never had communion or conformation. Though I would like to do that. My husband is a baptized non catholic. My husband was married and is divorced. I only recently learned that the Catholic church doesn’t recognize our marriage. I spoke with my decon and he said we could marry in the church and have it recognized. But does my husband need to have an annulment given he is not catholic and he wasn’t married in the catholic church? Or would that only apply to me because I am the catholic?

  • Jordan says:

    Hello, me and my fiancé have been engaged a while and are now looking to get married. He is Catholic as are the majority of his family but I haven’t grown up with a religious family and was never baptised or christened. We have had a daughter together and she has also been baptised. I am completely happy with the religion of my partner and now our daughter and we are looking into getting married at a Cathedral near to us. I am really quite worried as I haven’t been baptised and we haven’t actually been to our local church for about a year due to it being quite difficult to attend, as our local church has to have mass on a Saturday evening and we like to have our daughter settled in bed.

    Sorry for the rather long story but my question is due to all this do I need to be baptised or can we get married without this? Also in your opinion as we haven’t been to mass for this time am I going to be accepted to the church at all? I’m just very unsure of everything and was looking for some advise before we speak to the priest as I am very nervous of it all.


  • Rebekah says:

    Hello! I am seriously considering becoming a Catholic. I have been baptized in a Brethren church. My question is this… I live with my boyfriend, who is a Christian but was never baptized. Also we have both been divorced. Is it possible for me to become a Catholic?? Thank you so much in advance for answers and clarification!

    • Yes, you can become Catholic! Reach out to local parish and they will talk with you about the initiation process. You may find, though, that living with your boyfriend doesn’t match up with the commitment you make to the Church. You might have some tough conversations ahead of you, but stay strong in your pursuit of what is clearly a Divine calling!

  • cait says:

    Hello, my boyfriend is Polish and is baptised Catholic with communion. I have never been baptised by any church. I was also married in a civil ceremony had two children then divorced 2 years ago. Without too many details it was his infidelity and domestic abuse that led to the divorce. Will it be possible for us to marry in his families church in Poland. I’ve read a lot about annulment but not sure what would be needed. Especially as my ex husband will not be willing to comply. Any help would be appreciated, thank you.

  • Zara says:

    I am a catholic who has been baptized and I had my first communion as well. I only need to do my confirmation. My question is will my fiancé and I be able to marry in a Catholic Church if he is a Lutheran who has been baptized?

  • sandra says:

    My fiance and i have been together for 7 years. He was baptized as catholic . we want to get married in a catholic church. But i was never baptized to any religión. So My questión is .. Can we get married in a catholic church??

  • Ellyda says:

    Hi my fiancé is a baptized catholic and I’m a baptized Mormon and we would like to get marry in a Catholic Church, is it possible? Tks

  • Clare says:

    Hi, My fiancé was baptized and confirmed in a Catholic church, but has not participated since he was 17 and does not consider himself as catholic. I’ve been baptized, confirmed and participating in the catholic parish. I’d like to get married or recognized in order for me to continue participating in the parish. My question is 1. is he considered as catholic and 2. if he does not have an interest to return to the catholic church, can we get married/recognized by a catholic church.
    Thank you

  • Yohana says:

    If My fiancé and I get married only by catholic church, is it a legal marriage? I mean, does the law see it as a law protected marriage?

  • Jacqueline says:

    I’m only baptism Catholic. how can me and my husband get married in a catholic church. I really want to get married in a Catholic Church

  • maria says:

    My son was raised Catholic. He was baptized, received his First Communion and was confirmed. His fiancee is a non-Catholic. They hope to be married in September of 2015. It appears that my son’s job will be moving him to another part of the state. For this reason, they would like to be married at our parish church although they live in another part of the state now. What steps need to be taken to make this possible?

  • rich says:

    My wife (of civil union) and I want to enter the Catholic church. We’ve gone through the RCIA classes, but were told she may need an annulment from her previous marriage.

    Neither she nor her ex-husband were baptized or even Catholic at the time.

    Does she still need to seek an annulment?

  • marie says:

    my fiancee and I are both Catholic, baptised and confirmed but we have lapsed. We want to get married but are broke and he has nowhere else to go so I am in a turmoil because I want to go back to Mass and the sacraments but feel I can’t. Do you think our Parish Priest may consider marrying us free as we are so broke?I am too ashamed to ask him. I would marry my fiancee this minute in my tacksuit, and we don’t care about fancy weddings. What is your advice please.

  • Michael says:

    Can a retired older couple , man & woman over 65 get a sacrament marriage without a government marriage license?

  • Jonathan says:

    I was wondering. Today is our meeting with the deacon. We are trying to have a wedding by the end of june. The process itself does it all depend on the deacon and certain programs that the church provides? I know its a short time notice and just wanted to know if the time process varies

  • Delani says:

    Hello, I am a catholic: baptized, first communion, and confirmation. My fiancé on the other hand is baptized in the Catholic Church, but his first communion and confirmation were completed in the episcopal church. Is this still valid? Would we be able to marry in the catholic church?

  • Patricia says:

    Hello, I was baptised in a Catholic Church and my partner of 8 years was in a C of E, I have not had Communion or Confirmation. We have one son who is 5 years old who has not been baptised, what I would like to know is would our son be allowed to be baptised in the same church as I was as a baby, we do not live in that parish, although it is only around a mile and a half from our home however my parents still live there. Also would we be allowed to marry in there, I am willing and keen to have Communion and Confirmation and my partner is also keen to be baptised in the Catholic church, would all of this be possible and in the Church I have chosen, the reason I feel so strongly about my parents Parish Church is it is the only one I have ever attended Mass in.
    Thank you

  • Marisell says:

    Hello, my fiancé and I are both Catholics with all the sacraments. We would like to get married, however the church we called to see if it was possible to get married waited a week to call me back to tell me that they don’t marry people outside from the town. Is that possible?

  • Alex says:


    I am a baptized and confirmed practicing Catholic, but I came by these means through the RCIA program at a local parish 5 years ago. I was baptized as a child at a different Christian church that my family attended (I didn’t know this didn’t count as being ‘baptized’), but always thought Catholicism made more sense to me so that is why I chose to go through RCIA. I wanted to ensure that whomever I marry, we can teach these same Catholic values to our children. Anyway, now that I am getting married in a few months at a Catholic Church, my fiancé (who is a baptized and confirmed Lutheran) and I gave met with our priest that will be marrying us and he said we are good to go. I told him up front I went through RCIA, I told him I was baptized as a child (I was so unsure of what religion we truly were, some people in our family are Catholic, some are Christian), and I told him I was never confirmed until I went through RCIA. My dilemma is now that I am afraid they won’t allow us to get married in the Catholic Church because I wasn’t born a Catholic, I just became one when I went through RCIA. I can provide all proper documents on my RCIA and the baptism I went through as a child. How should I handle this? I don’t want our priest to think I was lying about being Catholic and I’m afraid they won’t let us have our wedding now because I’m not born a Catholic and my fiancé was baptized a Lutheran. Please help!

  • Cindy says:

    I am a Catholic. I was married and have an annulment. I am dating a non catholic. He was baptized in a Methodist Church. If he was married in a non denominational church (not sure it was Christian). Are we able to marry in the Catholic Church. All he knows is it was something like New Life (something). His wife left him because she had a calling to be a preacher and left to go to school to Oklahoma.